- Tribal Level:

1. Your sense of belonging:

  • Which groups you feel you belong to.
  • Whether you feel accepted by your groups.
  • Whether you feel included or excluded.
  • Whether you feel connected to the people around you.
  • Whether you believe you have a place within your community.
  • Whether belonging influences your decisions.

2. Your family:

  • How you see your family.
  • What role you play within your family.
  • What responsibilities you have toward your family.
  • What expectations your family has of you.
  • What traditions your family follows.
  • What values your family emphasizes.
  • How your family influences your choices.

3. Your friends:

  • Who you consider a friend.
  • Who you trust.
  • Who supports your development.
  • Who influences your behavior.
  • What you expect from your friendships.
  • What your friends expect from you.
  • Which friendships you want to maintain.

4. Your social groups:

  • Which groups you participate in.
  • What connects you to those groups.
  • What role you have within each group.
  • What behaviors are accepted within the group.
  • What behaviors are discouraged within the group.
  • How group membership influences your behavior.

5. Your social identity:

  • Which groups you identify with.
  • Which communities you consider part of your identity.
  • Which social roles you identify with.
  • How group membership contributes to your identity.
  • Whether you define yourself strongly through group membership.
  • Whether you can maintain your individuality within a group.

6. Your group's values:

  • What your group considers important.
  • What your group considers acceptable.
  • What your group considers unacceptable.
  • What your group rewards.
  • What your group discourages.
  • Whether your personal values agree with your group's values.
  • Where your values differ from the group's values.

7. Your group's beliefs:

  • What your group believes to be true.
  • What beliefs are commonly shared within the group.
  • Which beliefs you personally accept.
  • Which beliefs you question.
  • Which beliefs you inherited from the group.
  • Whether you can question group beliefs.
  • Whether group beliefs influence your decisions.

8. Your group's norms:

  • What behavior is considered normal within your group.
  • What behavior is considered unusual.
  • What behavior is expected from members.
  • What behavior receives approval.
  • What behavior receives disapproval.
  • Which norms are explicit.
  • Which norms are implicit.

9. Your group's rules:

  • What formal rules your group has.
  • What informal rules your group has.
  • What members are expected to do.
  • What members are expected not to do.
  • What happens when rules are violated.
  • Whether you agree with the group's rules.
  • Whether you can question unfair rules.

10. Your social roles:

  • What roles you occupy within your groups.
  • What responsibilities come with those roles.
  • What expectations come with those roles.
  • How different roles affect your behavior.
  • Whether different roles conflict with one another.
  • Whether you can change roles when circumstances change.

11. Your reputation:

  • How other people perceive you.
  • What you are known for.
  • What people expect from you.
  • How your behavior affects your reputation.
  • Whether you protect your reputation at the expense of your values.
  • Whether you allow your reputation to define you.

12. Your social status:

  • What position you hold within your groups.
  • How much influence you have.
  • How much respect you receive.
  • What privileges your position provides.
  • What responsibilities your position creates.
  • Whether you depend on status for your sense of worth.

13. Your need for acceptance:

  • How much you want others to accept you.
  • How much rejection affects your behavior.
  • Whether you change yourself to gain acceptance.
  • Whether you hide disagreement to avoid rejection.
  • Whether you can tolerate being disliked.
  • Whether you can remain authentic when others disagree with you.

14. Your conformity:

  • Whether you follow group behavior.
  • Whether you change your behavior to fit in.
  • Whether you agree with the group because you genuinely agree.
  • Whether you agree because you fear rejection.
  • Whether you can maintain independent judgment.
  • Whether you can disagree respectfully with your group.

15. Your individuality within the group:

  • Whether you maintain your own identity within a group.
  • Whether you maintain your own values.
  • Whether you maintain your own opinions.
  • Whether you can make independent decisions.
  • Whether you can disagree without feeling that you must leave the group.
  • Whether belonging requires you to suppress important parts of yourself.

16. Your loyalty:

  • Who you feel loyal to.
  • What loyalty means to you.
  • What you are willing to do for your group.
  • Whether loyalty has limits.
  • Whether you remain loyal when your group behaves wrongly.
  • Whether loyalty conflicts with your personal values.

17. Your trust within the group:

  • Who you trust.
  • Why you trust certain people.
  • How trust develops.
  • How trust can be damaged.
  • Whether trust is based on evidence or assumptions.
  • Whether you can recognize when trust needs to be reconsidered.

18. Your cooperation:

  • Whether you cooperate with others.
  • Whether you contribute to group goals.
  • Whether you fulfill your responsibilities.
  • Whether you share resources appropriately.
  • Whether you communicate when problems arise.
  • Whether you support others when cooperation is mutually beneficial.

19. Your reciprocity:

  • Whether you give and receive support.
  • Whether relationships involve mutual contribution.
  • Whether you recognize when reciprocity is unequal.
  • Whether you help others without expecting immediate repayment.
  • Whether you allow others to help you.
  • Whether you maintain relationships based on mutual respect.

20. Your social support:

  • Who you can turn to for help.
  • Who you can talk to about problems.
  • Who provides practical support.
  • Who provides useful information.
  • Who encourages your development.
  • Whether you ask for help when you need it.

21. Your social influence:

  • Who influences your decisions.
  • Who influences your beliefs.
  • Who influences your behavior.
  • What groups influence your choices.
  • What social pressures influence you.
  • Whether you recognize when you are being influenced.
  • Whether you intentionally choose whose influence you accept.

22. Your group pressure:

  • Whether you feel pressure to conform.
  • Whether you feel pressure to behave like others.
  • Whether you feel pressure to share group beliefs.
  • Whether you feel pressure to prove your loyalty.
  • Whether you can resist harmful group pressure.
  • Whether you recognize when belonging is being used to control behavior.

23. Your inclusion & exclusion:

  • Who is included in your groups.
  • Who is excluded from your groups.
  • How you respond when you are excluded.
  • How you treat people outside your group.
  • Whether you create unnecessary divisions between people.
  • Whether you recognize unfair exclusion.

24. Your in-group & out-group thinking:

  • Who you consider part of your group.
  • Who you consider outside your group.
  • Whether you automatically favor members of your group.
  • Whether you make assumptions about people outside your group.
  • Whether you recognize similarities between your group and other groups.
  • Whether you judge individuals based on group membership.

25. Your group identity:

  • What groups you identify with.
  • How strongly you identify with each group.
  • What group membership means to you.
  • What you gain from group membership.
  • What responsibilities group membership creates.
  • Whether group identity supports or restricts your development.

26. Your traditions:

  • Which traditions you follow.
  • Which traditions your family follows.
  • Which traditions your community follows.
  • Why those traditions exist.
  • Which traditions you value.
  • Which traditions you question.
  • Which traditions you choose to continue.

27. Your collective goals:

  • What your group wants to achieve.
  • What goals you share with others.
  • What you contribute to collective goals.
  • What sacrifices collective goals require.
  • Whether collective goals conflict with your personal goals.
  • Whether you can balance personal and collective interests.

28. Your contribution to others:

  • What you contribute to your family.
  • What you contribute to your friendships.
  • What you contribute to your community.
  • What knowledge you share.
  • What skills you offer others.
  • What responsibilities you take within your groups.

29. Your relationship with social conflict:

  • How you respond when your group disagrees with you.
  • How you respond when groups disagree with each other.
  • Whether you can disagree without attacking people.
  • Whether you seek understanding before judging.
  • Whether you can resolve conflicts constructively.
  • Whether you avoid unnecessary group conflict.
  • Whether you can maintain relationships despite reasonable disagreement.

30. Your place within the larger community:

  • How you contribute to your community.
  • What responsibilities you have toward other people.
  • How your behavior affects the people around you.
  • What communities you want to belong to.
  • What kind of community you want to help create.
  • Whether your actions support cooperation and mutual respect.
  • Whether you can belong to a group without losing yourself.
  • Whether you can respect people who belong to different groups.
  • Whether you can cooperate with people who do not share all your beliefs.
  • Whether you can balance loyalty to your group with your broader principles.

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